Macrobiotic Life

Dating is a rather timid way to get to know someone. It’s as if you’re creating a buffer of distractions in case things go wrong. This method is slow, boring, and largely pointless. It can also be unnecessarily expensive, causing you to mistakenly think you can’t initiate new relationships when finances are tight.

There’s a much more direct way to express interest in someone you like and to kick off a mutual exploration of relationship possibilities. It’s faster, cheaper, and a lot more fun.

Simply tell any potential partner up front how you feel about them and that you’d love to explore relationship possibilities together. Then ask if they feel the same.

This may take some courage, but it takes very little time.

Read the full article: Initiating Relationships with Openness, Honesty, and Directness

Do you really love your partner?
Do you love him/her so much that you wish her only the best in the World?
The best love (everflowing), happiness (always smiling), experiences (living fully everyday), adventure (traveling), romantic moments, beautiful living environment, healthy kids, strong financial support etc.
Are you giving all of this to your partner every minute of your life?
Or are you postponing it somehow, holding it back?
Have you ever thought, if you are the best person, that your partner can be with?
Maybe there are many better strong lovers than you, huh?
Ok, let’s presume there are.

Well, but what to do now, because if you want the best for your partner, doesn’t it mean, that you should make the space for these better Lovers?
Do you sometimes realise that you are not the best, that you are rather selfish and want your partner from the selfish reasons – not to be alone?

That’s what I call the real love – if you are not strong enough, don’t pretend you are and be totally open to your partner and suggest her to be with somebody stronger (if she doesn’t already want it).
You know what will happen after this suggestion?
You just showed your very strong side, because only strong persons are strong enough to admit their weaknesses even if it harms their personal interests.
So, maybe your partner will love you much more, for being so honest and strong.. and maybe she will really be with somebody else who will provide her with bigger pleasure.
Win/win situation? If you live in higher Oneness reality, then yes

Our psychic connection to any illness, disease.
Can bad psychic (stress, fear, angry, depression, anxiety, hate, worry and similar) be the main cause of our health problems?

Everything in the Universe is trying to find a balance, nothing stays in the extremes.
Such psychic behaviours as I mentioned are some form of being in the extreme.
We, as a human species, are using primarily our daily food as a big harmonizing aspect (if you question this statement, try to observe your behaviour in every condition first, especially when you have problems).
When we are stressed, when we are angry, when we fear of something – all of this is creating a disharmony in our energetic system.
We solve it very easily, efficiently – by eating sugar, chocolate, chips, honey, ice cream, wine, baked cookies etc.

And here comes the question.
Is the illness caused by the psychic influence alone?
Or is the food, that we use to cover these psychical problems, as the main cause of our health problems?
I think, that the second answer is more correct.

Because.. what does it mean at the first place when we are stressed, are feared of something, being anger, feeling hate or depression?
Ohsawa would tell you promptly – for a healthy person, there’s no psychic problem, he knows no stress, no fear, everything is simply a Challenge, he is grateful for everything.
If you have any psychic problem, if you are not eternally happy, that alone does mean, that you are disbalanced and mentaly diseased and that’s because you are not nourishing and living according to the rules of the Universe (summarized greatly in the Macrobiotic teachings).

There is only one rule for the Universe and that is:
There is no rule.

For many, Hitler was very bad person.
For very few, Hitler was quite good person.
For the Universe, Hitler just was.

Do you think, there’s a one direction Way we should take in our lives?
A Route of Life better than others?
The only Goal, blessed by God?

There’s no Way.
All Ways just are and no one is better or worse.

Hitler just was, according to the rule of Universe.
According to what he nourished himself with, according all the influences upon him.
We just are in the same way.

But some beings are in Harmony with the Universe and some are not.
Hitler wasn’t.
Are you?

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Latest things that influenced me before writing this post were: music – 300 (soundtrack), shower, carob, honey, tahini, seitan, brown rice, miso soup

Everything can be viewed in the form of vibration.
What sorts of vibrations influence us? Many.
Food, environment, things, people, thoughts, stars, planets, everything.
The thought or an action of a person 30 km away can have some kind of vibrational effect upon us.
Our food is logicaly a very important vibrational source that builds our whole body.
The way/manners how we eat has also exact vibrations connected – slow chewing versus fast eating infront of a TV.
All we do, all we say, all we think about… are our output vibrations.
All we eat, all we breath, all we hear and see… are our vibrational incomes.
We are like a radio, we are vibrating on some frequency, dependant on the never ending flow of the incomes and outcomes through our body.
We can tune ourselfs consciously with the help of knowledge of these energies, or we can live unconsciously, seeing world more from the point of accident/chance/luck.
The astrology is also based on a big knowledge of cosmic energies, they are at the base of our whole life on planet Earth.