Do you really love your partner?
Do you really love your partner?
Do you love him/her so much that you wish her only the best in the World?
The best love (everflowing), happiness (always smiling), experiences (living fully everyday), adventure (traveling), romantic moments, beautiful living environment, healthy kids, strong financial support etc.
Are you giving all of this to your partner every minute of your life?
Or are you postponing it somehow, holding it back?
Have you ever thought, if you are the best person, that your partner can be with?
Maybe there are many better strong lovers than you, huh?
Ok, let’s presume there are.
Well, but what to do now, because if you want the best for your partner, doesn’t it mean, that you should make the space for these better Lovers?
Do you sometimes realise that you are not the best, that you are rather selfish and want your partner from the selfish reasons – not to be alone?
That’s what I call the real love – if you are not strong enough, don’t pretend you are and be totally open to your partner and suggest her to be with somebody stronger (if she doesn’t already want it).
You know what will happen after this suggestion?
You just showed your very strong side, because only strong persons are strong enough to admit their weaknesses even if it harms their personal interests.
So, maybe your partner will love you much more, for being so honest and strong.. and maybe she will really be with somebody else who will provide her with bigger pleasure.
Win/win situation? If you live in higher Oneness reality, then yes 
February 5th, 2009 at 10:11 am
I am surprised to read something from someone else that I have already completely thought about. My wife and I have had this discussion and it has indeed strengthened us. She knows that I don’t quite love her the way that I wish to, but that what I do have for her is still better than I have ever given any one else on this earth. I told her from day one I would be honest with her even if it brings pain. She has loved me more for it…