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Stop identifying with your Fears

Thursday, February 25th, 2010

self-identity fear society

Stop self-identifying with your opinions.

We waste vast amount of PersonalEnergy in holding our self-conceptions.
It’s all about the available energy in the end.
Either you have enough for living fully, living your dreams, or you are running the rat race, in the circle, spending the energy to everything else but your dreams.

Self-identifying with your opinions is one of the biggest PersonalEnergy eaters!

You are not your opinions, realize this.
This is what Buddha and many others taught.
We are not our body, we are not our mind, hence we are not our ideas, opinions.
Easy up with yourself and don’t take yourself so seriously.

You invest a lot of available/potent energy to holding your self-identity.
You are trying to behave consistently, to have the same face each day before the world, before all the people that know you, but especially before yourself, before your EGO connectedness.
You are afraid to behave another way, to really follow your inner feeling, inner emotions.
You are stuck in the dead world of ideas about yourself.
You nurture your SelfIdentity daily, you feed it, like a personal Pet.

But you know what? This Pet theory, it’s not a joke.
Your SelfIdentity is really a living entity.
It is energetic being and it needs to eat, it needs attention.
Read Toltecs (Castaneda, Ruiz – Beyond Fear) – and you’ll get perfect explanations that our emotions are alive entities, feeding on our emotions.

Stop feeding it, nurturing it.
Stop identifying with your opinions.
Start to embrace other people’s world views, ideas, concepts.
Don’t feel attacked if they attack your old views, they are not attacking you, but your coat, your WorldViewGlasses, just your opinion.
This is how the people should think – to embrace these, that are different, that think for themselves, that are not part of the sheep herd.
Don’t be afraid to change your opinions from day to day, if it seems reasonable.
Think logically about other people’s views, be critical, open minded, allow yourself to think differently.
Try to ‘wear’ other opinions first before discarding them, before attacking other world views.

We are living in a big stupid DreamWorld.
Full of close minded people, holding their opinions, stuck in them.
Feeling attacked by other people’s ideas, religions.
Projecting fear around and poisoning other relatives, raising own children in this way – to fear, to feel lack, to take energy from others by the method of fight and fear, not by the method of love and courage.

When you stop identifying with your opinions – the results are:
You start communicating on the web more freely, more often.
You start putting comments to your favorite blogs, to favorite forums.
You start connecting with people in the real world.
You start talking instead of listening only.
Because you are not afraid what others think about you – because you are not your opinions!!

I know, it’s easy to read, but harder to achieve.
I have been there, reading, believing, but still afraid to express myself fully.
I am still learning, but I have gone a long way.
And I can tell you and 100% assure you – be brave and start practicing this MindShift immediately, now.
It will take some time, of course, few months – but you’ll get there – but it’s not about the End, it’s about the walking the Path.
The mind will shift to the new world view (egolessness, energy abundance, love) – the living entity will be cut from the emotional fuel.

And you’ll start to have available energy – start living your Dreams.

There’s nothing wrong with you, if you feel lack of energy, still desperately looking on your Dreams and still not getting them.
You feel bad for yourself, you feel you are weak, useless, unable to achieve your dreams.

But realize this VERY IMPORTANT energetic concept!
This is not fault of your CoreBeing at all, it’s not Your fault.
Don’t feel bad for yourself!
This “feeling bad” thinking is the mind trap, this is the “running in the circle” protractor.
Realize how logical it is on the energetic level.
You have exact amount of available energy – this energy can be regulated of course, the incomes are in your hands how you handle them, there are many ways – I am now talking about the outcomes.
It’s completely up to you, where you invest the available energy.
Because we are domesticated by society, we have no other option to think differently than investing this energy to fear, stress, SelfIdentity.
It’s nothing to feel bad for, to criticize yourself for.
It’s really complicated to see through this SocietyGame.
All energy in this SocietyGame is taken by your mundane jobs, poor partnerships, concurrent relationships, stupid amusement distractions (tv), lot of commercials provocating in you the need for material things.
It’s just how things are, nothing to feel bad for.
Now, realize this – the only way to get out from this trap is to love yourself for whatever you are – especially for this stupidity, that you played the SocietyGame so long.
But, be careful, you are not out of this game at all by seeing through this Game, you just know the doors now, but you are not out yet – I am saying this to protect you from a new MindTrap before you – you think you grasped it now and nobody can stop you – yeah, if that would be so easy – but reality is, you have grasped it, you will do your best now, but you still haven’t enough available energy to go through this door, to close them behind, to lock them – you will be many times kicked out from them – this is how things are in the energetic Universe – I am just preparing you for these up/down periods, this is the typical spiritual grow – remember, love yourself for whatever you are, whenever you are on the way!!
If you not loving yourself, you are wasting a lot of the available energy and closing yourself again to the “rat race”.
Only way how to gather the energy is to start loving Yourself.

Meditate, start connecting to your RealSelf, to the Observer in you.

Play the life with easiness, with grace, with love.
Play the life like a game, which it truly is!
Don’t stress about other people opinions, moods, behaviors.
But don’t be also passive – change things, but with inner calmness.

You are not your opinions (and many other things)!

Start commenting to blogs and forums that you like to read.
Start giving instead of consuming – the more you give, the more energy you get.
Kick out the biggest energy eaters from your life.
Don’t hold the old relationships based on fear, based on the past times.
Or don’t kick anyone, just stop feeding them with your energy, don’t allow them to eat your portion. But when you do this, very probably, many of them will be angry to you, because they suddenly stop getting the feed from you.
Be kind with them – they are just addicts as we all are.
But stop prolongating this stupid SocietyAddiction.
Read Miguel Ruiz – The Four Agreements – it’s a perfectly practical set of things how to raise your energy. But most important, don’t only read, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE!
Express Abundance.

Love you ;)